In the online dating game, a large group of women is chasing a small group of only the most attractive high status men. This picky female behavior is called hypergamy. Given the seemingly endless selection, somehow most of you come to believe, that you can get one of those guys exclusively and complain, when he doesn't stay. Men with greater options tend to prefer polygamy. If your aim is monogamy, you got to get over your hypergamy and give the other guys a chance. Thank me later.